Pornography seems to be everywhere these days, but mainly targeted towards pleasing those with a penis. From viewing some of these videos, you could be excused for assuming people with vaginas all love to be degraded into sexual acts… and whilst there are plenty who do, they are not the majority. I love and celebrate pornography, especially it’s diversity, but if you don’t enjoy some of these commonly featured acts, you’re not alone. While some get pleasure from this type of role play, hard-core kink or being ejaculated on, this isn’t the case for most. So where can we find erotic pornography where the actors look like real everyday people and the focus is an empowered type of pleasure? Well, lucky for you, I’ve done a bit (/a lot) of research…
My best advice is to pay for it. Sign up to a quality service and you will get all the quality erotica your heart desires (and will improve an industry that is in dire need of a reform). I’ve included some options. Many offer sales and ways to access just single films/stories if that is your preference. All sites recommended offer a mix of heterosexual, same-sex and non-binary content for you to explore. Some are focused on softer porn, whilst others are a little on the kinkier side.
You can also rest assured that you won’t be remarketed to around the internet (so no kinky ads showing up on your laptop when you’re sharing your screen at work)!
Many of the recommendations are all made by female Indie Porn Producer, Erika Lust. Known for putting real bodies into the cast and showing a variety of body types, Erika also places ethical production and treatment of her stars as a high priority. They also offer discounts to access her other sites.
Lust Cinema
monthly / yearly subscription.
There’s really something for everyone – trans, lesbian, BDSM, queer, threesome, group sex… you name it, they’ve got it.
For vulva owners who are into other vulva owners check out the Viv Thomas section who offers a lesbian category that was not created for the male gaze.
Else Cinema
monthly / yearly subscription
Else Cinema has a collection of beautiful erotic films with stories that focus on the emotions and feelings of sex and less of the close-up genitalia shots. This is a softer type of porn compared to the other two sites by Erika Lust and is ideal for those who find the clips on mainstream sites too jarring and not reflective of their own romantic fantasies.
XConfessions
FREE / monthly /yearly subscription
This site features a collection of different indie filmmakers creating erotic short films for the female pleasure. This site has the largest range of categories, so there is something for everyone including shibari, pegging, food play, taboo, massage and more.
Frolic Me
monthly /yearly subscription | 1 week trial
Focusing on soft erotic porn, this site is perfect for those who are looking for the more chill type of porn, and not so much the kink. It’s more the ‘pull-at-your-heart-strings’ romantic type of porn centred around positive female pleasure.
Happy watching!
