Sex therapist Stacey Micallef

A bit about Stacey Micallef

Sexologist and Counsellor - She/Her
GD-SXLGY, M-COUNS, GC-PH, MSAS, MACA L2

Stacey Micallef is a certified sexologist and counsellor based in Geelong who works with individuals and those in relationships to have healthy connections with self and/or others. Stacey also specialises in resolving past trauma. 

She aims to give balanced advice in a safe, calm and non-judgemental setting. As an LGBTQIA+, neurodivergent friendly and non-touch therapist, Stacey creates a safe space where you can enhance your relationships and make your sex life more fulfilling.

Poly and NM relationships are welcome. 

  • Graduate Diploma Sexology
  • Master of Counselling
  • Graduate Certificate Sex, Health and Society
  • Accredited psychosexual therapist of Society of Australian Sexologists 
  • Accredited member of Australian Counselling Association L2
  • The Science of Pleasure Graduate & Guest Lecturer
Sex therapist Stacey Micallef

A bit about me

  • Grad. Diploma Sexology
  • Master of Counselling.
  • Grad. Certificate Sex, Health and Society
  • Accredited psychosexual therapist of Society of Australian Sexologists 
  • Accredited member of Australian Counselling Association L2
  • The Science of Pleasure Graduate & Guest Lecturer

Stacey is a certified sexologist and relationship counsellor who works with individuals and those in relationships to have healthy intimate connections with others or self. 

She can help you explore intimacy, pleasure, sexual difficulties and help you find more enjoyment from sex. She aims to give balanced advice in a non-judgemental setting. As an LGBTQIA+, neurodivergent friendly and non-touch therapist, Stacey creates a safe space where you can enhance your relationships and make your sex life more fulfilling.

Poly and NM relationships are welcome. 

Further training

Techniques that counsellors use with clients are drawn from theories or modalities. I am trained in and use a blend of the following:

  • Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART) – Bilateral Eye-Movement Therapy similar to EMDR. It is known as the fastest modality for resolving trauma
  • Schema Therapy – A wonderful blueprint that helps you understand yourself & others
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS) – helping people heal by accessing and healing their protective and wounded inner parts. Non-accredited training
  • Gottman Therapy Level 1 & 2– used for relationships
  • Emotion Focused Therapy – used for relationships
  • Attachment Styles – used for relationships

Find your sexual side

Education about pleasure from sex and self has been lacking.

Gendered socialisation in particular, teaches many to please others and ignore their own needs and bodies. Exposure to painful, passive or unenjoyable sex is common. These expectations set up us for a lot of disappointment. 

I became a sexologist to change that. Whilst some people are and will always be in touch with their sexuality, for some it’s about figuring out what turns you on (and what turns you off), and being open to exploration. I use  sexology to guide you and promise to give you the most interesting homework you’ve ever been given.

Sex educator for orgasms

Find your sexual side

Education about pleasure from sex and self has been lacking.

Gendered socialisation in particular teaches many to please others and ignore their own needs and bodies. Exposure to painful, passive or unenjoyable sex is common. These expectations set up us for a lot of disappointment. 

I became a sexologist to change that. Whilst some people are and will always be in touch with their sexuality, for some it’s about figuring out what turns you on (and what turns you off), and being open to exploration. I use  sexology to guide you and promise to give you the most interesting homework you’ve ever been given.

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Feel free to contact me, and I will be more than happy to answer all of your questions. stacey@theocode.com.au

Later in Life Lesbian Support

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